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How to Get Your Dog’s Attention: 3 Easy and Fun Exercises


Do you know what one of the most important and underrated aspects of positive dog training is? 

It is learning how to get your dog’s attention.

In this blog post, I’ll tell you how to achieve this, including:

How Getting Your Dog’s Attention Will Teach Her to be a Good Student
How Do You Know If You Have Your Dog’s Attention?
Is Having Your Dog’s Attention Overrated?
Why You Should Not Take Your Dog’s Attention for Granted 
Your Dog Knows When You Are Not Focused
Dog Attention Exercise
#1 Eye Contact
#2 Impulse-Control
#3 Hand Targeting 
The Most Important in Dog Training is….

Think about it this way: How will you train your dog using positive methods if your dog doesn’t pay any attention to you? The best tip is, the attention you need to command to successfully train your dog doesn’t come without work.

If you’ve been struggling to teach your pet to ignore distractions, such as pets like cats, birds, and other animals, this blog will show you how to get your dog’s attention. You’ll also learn three fun and easy exercises to begin to train this behavior.

How Getting Your Dog’s Attention Will Teach Her to be a Good Student


Training for your dog’s attention teaches them to be a good student. In class, the best student is someone sitting quietly, content to wait for the teacher’s instructions. It is much easier for an owner to teach a dog everything else once they set this foundation in place.

Later in this post, I will share two of my favorite attention exercises. They revolve between paying attention and waiting for instructions. If you have a distracted canine, I’ll include additional tips on turning your dog into a good student.

Training for your dog’s attention is among the core principles in positive reinforcement training. It is also a necessity to make your dog’s training successful. In my opinion, training your dog to pay attention is one of the fundamentals that nearly all dog training experts underemphasize. For example, a lot of problems can arise when your dog won’t give you their attention. A dangerous behavior like running into the street could become serious if your dog doesn’t respond to your commands. 

Once you read this post, you will have the correct mindset. You’ll also learn the training exercises to get your dog to pay attention. In terms of daily living, your search is over for simple steps to get a happy, well-trained and trusting new family member.

How Do You Know If You Have Your Dog’s Attention?

The easiest way to see if your dog is paying attention to you is by observing it. See if it’s looking at you constantly and following everything you do closely. Free play can help you see what grabs your dog’s attention. Some people even use clicker training, which most dogs see as a fun game to play. 

Once you have an attentive dog it will be quite obvious, especially to other family members or friends. For example, they may mention how your dog constantly seems to follow you around and work for your attention.

If your dog is anything like most, you’ll experience this when it’s feeding. The next time your dog is eating or enjoying a treat, watch their body language to see how they respond. The way they position themselves indicates how intent they are on what they are doing at the time. 

However, some dogs are discrete, so they send a message of ambivalence. It seems like they couldn’t be bothered about where you are or what you are doing. But the moment you disappear from sight, they are suddenly right behind you. If your dog was truly aloof, you would have to call them using a special treat or word, like “come” or “here” to get their attention. 

My dogs can even be upstairs when I’m working downstairs. But the moment I stop writing on my computer, they come down so I don’t slip away without them. To put it shortly, attention is when your dog is aware of your movements and what you are doing at any time of the day. This may reduce your level of privacy, but your dog will be happier and safer when they pay attention to you. 

Is Having Your Dog’s Attention Overrated?

You might wonder if all this talk about getting a dog’s attention is overrated. After all, the policy of “old school” trainers is that it is secondary to other skills.  They believe they get the same results or better by telling the dog to pay attention when they want it to. And if the dog does not listen, the next thing they do is to force it to pay attention.

Just look at your dog when it has you in focus because it wants to, not because it has to. You can see that it’ll do anything to please you. Once you get to this stage, the rest of your training will be a much better experience. And that is precisely why you need to focus on training your dog to pay attention to you.

Why You Should Not Take Your Dog’s Attention for Granted

In my experience, we take so much for granted – too much, as a matter of fact. When a dog first comes to us, it relies on us completely. We are at the center of its attention every minute of the day. But this is only for the first few weeks because as the dog develops, its world grows bigger. All the new stuff it encounters becomes interesting – maybe even more interesting than you.

This is bad news for your relationship.

There should be nothing more interesting than you in the long run. If you can stay at the center of your dog’s attention and improve your bond with your dog, everything will become much easier.

So how do we accomplish this? We train every day, all year.

We make it a habit, not only for us but also for our fantastic dogs. What we train is not just the ordinary sit, come, down – no. Before, under and after this comes training the dog to pay attention to you.

So now you understand what it means to have your dog’s attention and why it’s so important. It’s time to move into the basic framework for teaching attention. You will learn a few simple exercises to ensure your dog is always paying attention to you.

Your Dog Knows When You Are Not Focused

First things first: When training your dog to pay attention to you, you have to be there. This means being present with your dog – remember your dog can feel you. It knows when you’re sad and when you’re happy. And it most certainly knows when you are lying and when you are not.

Therefore, be sure you’re present throughout the relatively short time you train your dog. No texting, no FaceBook, no watching tv, no cooking – JUST BE THERE!

The framework for teaching your dog to pay attention is extremely simple. Reward your dog when it pays attention to you. You can reward your dog in many ways – with treats, praise, and even with happiness.

To understand how to reward your dog for paying attention, read on to discover my three favorite ways to train my dogs to pay attention. 

Dog Attention Exercise


#1 – Eye Contact

The first exercise is called eye contact, and this is an exercise that teaches your dog to sit quietly and pay attention to the teacher. To do this exercise, follow these simple steps:

  • Grab some treats and sit beside your dog.
  • Wait for them to look at you, which requires a bit of patience the first time. Hang in there – it’s worth the wait. If your puppy is too fixated on your hand with the treats lift it to your face. Reward the moment she looks at your face. Repeat a couple of times, then stop. Eventually, she must figure out herself to look at your face.
  • Do not make sounds or call your puppy. 
  • At the moment your dog lifts its eyes to yours, praise them warmly. You can use your clicker or reward it with its favorite treat.
  • Keep still and wait for it to happen again. Repeat until your dog understands that looking in your eyes or at your face brings good things – and a happy you. 
  • When your puppy know what to do, you can grow the behavior by standing up, stretching your arm away from your body and so on. Be patient and repeat, repeat, repeat…

See this video for a more thorough explanation of this exercise:

#2 – Impulse Control

This exercise is called impulse control. It is more of a concept than an actual exercise because there are many variations. When your dog knows it’s supposed to look at you, you can use this endlessly in everything you do, fx 

  • “Drop” something from the kitchen table or desk. If your dog tries to grab it, cover it with your foot. When your dog sits and – at some point – looks at you, praise it and tell it to get it.
  • Before leaving or entering. If your dog tries to get in or out the door before you, keep the door closed with your hand on the handle. Wait for her to sit and look at you. Now open the door. If she starts to move, close the door again.

Again, your dog learns it pays off to look at you before doing what it wants. In this way, your dog can channel every good thing it wants and gets through you. In your dog’s eyes, you are then the origin of it all. This creates a strong foundation for additional training and bonding and this is why I use this exercise in my classes. 

Here you’ll see how I’m teaching lovely Albert for the first time to control himself using this exercise.


#3 – Hand Targeting

The attention of your dog is also desirable when something happens that might scare or upset them. If you do nothing, your dog will grow more and more scared or upset. And if it cannot run, it will probably attack instead. This is natural, but nevertheless undesirable behavior.

Too many Facebook posts and YouTube videos provide examples of dogs who fail to pay attention. And you can avoid that with hand targeting.  So, instead of allowing this behavior to unfold, train attention to get in contact with your dog, even in times like that.

To practice this contact on demand, just follow these simple steps: 

  • Put your hand in front of your dog with the palm of your hand right in front of your dog’s nose.
  • Do not say anything, as it is good for your dog to use its brain – this also goes for us humans.
  • Wait for your dog to touch the palm of your hand.
  • The moment it happens, reward your dog – at first by praising it or by clicking, and then by giving a treat.
  • Do it again, and every time your dog touches the palm of your hand, reward it.

In time, your dog will know when your hand is down, it’s a signal to touch, and good things will happen because you have a connection. As long as your dog is focusing on you, it cannot focus on whatever might disturb it. You’re on your way to avoiding conflict and protecting your dog from being scared or disturbed. Your dog will love you for it.

See this video below for instructions of this exercise, as well as more interesting ways to use hand targeting in your dog training:

The Most Important in Dog Training is…

….. Having your dog’s attention on YOU!

To teach your puppy this and for training in general, you can use treats as a reward for the behavior you want to encourage. For this reason, I usually retain 50 percent of my dog’s rations, which I distribute evenly throughout the day in training sessions like this.

If I did not retain these rations, my dogs would probably lose the motivation for food. If your dog is responsive to food, it could end up becoming overweight. See this article on Pet MD for more information on how much a dog should eat.

To sum it all up, the fundamental and therefore most important principle in positive dog training is attention. This includes paying attention to your dog and its training. But most of all, it’s having your dog’s attention on you at all times.

Sadly, this is also what nearly all dog training experts underemphasize, but don’t make the same mistake. Remember this one piece of advice and the rest of your dog training will become much easier and far more worthwhile

Good luck with your training!

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  1. Sandy

    January 21, 2017 at 7:36 pm

    I like the article

    • Lene Kaufmann

      February 9, 2017 at 5:57 pm

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you took the time to tell me 🙂

  2. Kira

    July 4, 2017 at 5:02 pm

    This post is so very helpful!!! I’m working with my 3 month old collie puppy and I just want him to be exceptional. It’s a joy to be around a well trained, confident dog. Even non dog people can appreciate a great dog. That being said it’s easy to get overwhelmed and discouraged with so many blogs, books, styles and puppyhood in general. I can really relate to you and your joy really comes through in your writing. The steps are easy to understand and I love how everything is explained so thoroughly not just the how to, but also the why. Thank you so much. My only suggestion and please take this a constructive is maybe a “Start here” button might be helpful. I followed a link from Pinterest and read every post until I got to this one last and felt like none of it was achievable until I read this post. This one needs to be the starting point. The foundation of all the other training.

    • Lene Kaufmann

      July 21, 2017 at 4:07 pm

      I’m very grateful you have taken the time to give me this feedback, thank you! Of course, you are absolutely right, having your dogs attention is for me the most important thing and as you describe it the foundation of all other training I provide, so of course I must change this somehow – I’ll put it on top of my “to do” list!

      And you are quite right, I really love working with puppies and dogs in general and I’m so glad this comes through when writing. Your love for your dog must also be huge as you educate yourself this way. Is this your first puppy?

  3. Dog Groom Arena

    September 14, 2017 at 10:51 am

    Whao I am very gretefull for this information on how to get dog attention and I will give it a trial

    • Lene Kaufmann

      December 23, 2017 at 4:08 pm

      Thank you, I’m so glad you find it useful 🙂

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My name is Lene Kaufmann and one of my biggest passions in life is dogs and dog training. I’m a professional dog trainer, having personal offline courses in Denmark where I live, as well as writing this blog, making online courses and online coaching to help train puppies and puppy owners all over the world. My training philosophy is using positive choice based training methods to make your puppy regard you as the most important in life. I believe that dogs can be the greatest source of happiness and fulfillment, and it all starts by building the right foundation with your young puppy. I would love to help you do this!